Road Jes Traveled

I'm thankful... that baby Duke's procedure (got his man parts removed :( )went well and that he's healing ok. that things are falling into place for my mama. that I discovered Poshmark. that I have the strength to follow my heart and not my friends. that ili Designs teamed up with me for an awesome giveaway! for our K-Cup brewer. for the weather in Hawaii. for Law & Order SVU reruns. that I like my husband just as much as I love him. for Rafflecopter. that I get to be on an IRLO Mashup Team!!! that I won a giveaway :) that my blog will be getting a makeover soon! that I reached 700 followers on Twitter today! for email. for the smell of dryer sheets. for blog angels which starts tomorrow! that my husband actually enjoys cooking. (this will probably make the list every week) that my husband will be a bit less busy at work next week! that Duke enjoys wearing his cone of shame.. (oddly). my husband rocks on the grill! my sweet angel...

  ili Designs  Tiered Necklace. Enter to win HERE!  or by using the Rafflecopter below!   Lurex Drop Back Sleeveless Top Yellow Shorts Tory Burch Camelia Mid Wedge Patent Double Wrap Logo Stud Bracelet On the Side Dress See by Chloe Colorblock Flats Multi Coil Wrap Around a Rafflecopter giveaway

[via] Daniblack Women's Jetset Kenneth Jay Lane Clear Necklace Stuart Weitzman Women's Platform See by Chloe Shopping Bag Madden Girl Ankle-Strap Sandle See by Chloe Bag Betsey Johnson Agean Sandal Bass Olga Sandal I saw this collage and had to share it! I used to be so into this trend in my teenage years and it looks like it's trying to make a comeback. Do you think it will stick? P.S. Have you entered to win  this necklace from ili Designs ?? If not, use the Rafflecopter below to enter! a Rafflecopter giveaway

I am so excited to announce that I've paired up with ili Designs to bring you this awesome giveaway! One of the many reasons that I love their colorful accessories is that the majority of them are made with recycled materials. Who doesn't love being green?!  Check out more of ili Designs at  ilidesignshawaii.com .  P.S. Each item is handmade in Hawaii. :)  Now scroll down and enter! and don't forget to tell your friends! xo a Rafflecopter giveaway

Betsey Johnson Anchor Stud Earrings Anchor Necklace Anne Klein "Anchors Away" Handbag J.Crew Maritime Cotton Jersey Dress Lilly Pulitzer "Anchors Away" Wedge Kate Spade hardware jewelry Lilly Pulitzer "Anchors Away" Resort Clutch

Ok so I may have a little  shopping addiction. I'm a sucker for good deals, current trends, and pretty packaging.  The problem is (besides that obvious) that I'm also one of those people who sticks to what I'm comfortable in. So although I may have just bought a super cute dress, if I have to suck in my stomach or wear uncomfortable shoes to match it, chances are that I'll probably choose to wear a different dress. I'm also a hoarder of clothes. I hate getting rid of anything because I "just might need it someday"! Soooo.. with that being said.. I have a good amount of clothes that I've worn once or twice and some not at all. So what do I do with those items? They used to just sit in my closet, taking up space. Until now.. I just discovered  Poshmark ! How did I not know about this sooner?! "Poshmark is a fun and simple way to buy and sell fashion". It's a free app (currently available on iPhones and iPads) that allows you ...

I caught a lot of grief for posting this on my (personal) Facebook page today. But this isn't about me. Or what I believe in. Or what I believe is right and what is wrong. This is about the freedom to be who you are and love who you love.  Who are we to tell someone who they can and cannot love?

Once again, I came across something on District Sparkle that I had to share! Apparently, this list of 99 experiences has been floating around the internet. Not sure how it got started.. maybe someone's bucket list? Anyway, the experiences listed in bold are things that I've done. Since, I don't like to get too personal on my blog, I thought this would be a fun way for readers to kinda get to know some things about me. Ready..set.. go! 1. Started your own blog 2. Slept under the stars 3. Played in a band  4. Visited Hawaii 5. Watched a meteor shower 6. Given more than you can afford to charity 7. Been to Disneyland   8. Climbed a mountain 9. Held a praying mantis 10. Sang a solo 11. Bungee jumped  12. Visited Paris   13. Watched a lightening storm 14. Taught yourself an art from scratch 15. Adopted a child 16. Had food poisoning 17. Visited the Statue of Liberty 18. Grown your own vegetables  19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France 20. Slept on an o...

I keep hearing about Glamour magazine's 30 under 30 list, a list of 30 things that every girl should have and know by the time she reaches the age of 30, but I didn't read the list until today (thanks to Meaghan at  District Sparkle! ). It has become such a phenomenon (read about it here ) and I agree that every woman should read this. It looks like I have a lot of work to do in the next 5 years! [via] Pretty good huh? Want more? This list became so popular that the editors of Glamour decided to create a book about it. The book is titled "Thirty Things Every Woman Should Have and Should Know by the Time She's 30" and features essays from women about each topic on the list. Purchase it  here . I know I will! Buy the book!

I came across this idea on the lovely  Constant Chatter  blog. The idea is to list 20 things that you're thankful for every Thursday until you reach 1000 things (or until you want to stop). I've been feeling kinda blah lately and I think this is a good way to remind me of how blessed I really am. So here we go... I'm thankful for.. my husband. having a friend like Stella. Duke. not having to leave Hawaii just yet. being a Texan. meeting EJ! the internet. sweet bloggers who are super helpful. email. being able to resist biting my nails this week. our little home. the Pioneer Woman's awesome recipes. Duke being such a cuddle bug. living in Waikiki. my husband's amazing skills in the kitchen. our super comfy couch. airline deals. this weekend being a long one! having a supportive family. iPhones. [via] If you want to link up, visit:  constant-chatter.com . 

L-R:  The Bishop Bracelet by Rutherfords by Rebecca , Jessica Dark Blue Sea & Gold Bracelet by LinzGutz ,  Patent Double Wrap Logo Stud Bracelet by Tory Burch ,  Mini Smoothie Bracelet in Seaberry by Helloberry This might just be my favorite combination.

  dannijo hixson collar necklace   asos premium mesh collar necklace   peter pan bead necklace   apt 9 snakeskin collar   bar 3 crystal collar necklace   fiona paxton sequin collar necklace   asos multi chain collar necklace   stone metal collar   asos fine chain collar necklace   asos metal collar necklace Do you guys like the collar trend? I'm not sure how I feel about it yet. It's definitely unique and can spice up any outfit. I'm just not sure if it's for me. I pulled out some of my favorites. Which one do you like the most?

You guys.... how amazing are these necklaces from 31 Bits' new collection, Color Out Loud?! I am drooling over them!! Razzle Dazzle in Coral Razzle Dazzle in Coral Razzle Dazzle in Seafoam Razzle Dazzle in Seafoam Mamba Braid In case you don't already know this, 31 Bits is one of my favorite little shops. I am in love with their products and even more in love with their mission! Check them out!  31bits.com

[via] Ok so I know pink and read often remind us of Valentine's Day (or is that just me??) but I love the colors individually. They instantly add a pop of color and feminism to any outfit. Check out these beauties from Bauble Bar. Fluoro Boho Drops : $34 Fluoro Necklace : $38 Fringe Necklace : $32 Red Bloom Studs : $100 Red Resin Links : $58 Coral Rope Cuff : $52 Palm Beach Cuff : $26

[via] I'd say about 99% of my earrings are studs so I was thrilled when I saw this Bauble Bar collage. AND all of them are under $30! Aren't they cute?!? Tortoise Studs : $24 Bloom Studs : $24 Tournesol Studs : $26 Chrysanthemum Studs : $26 Bee Studs : $24 Yellow Pop Knot Studs : $24 Geranium Studs : $26 Red Ladybug Studs : $26 Pink Pop Knot Studs : $24 Which one is your favorite?

After years of searching for eyeliner that would actually stay on ALL day- I found one! Make Up Forever Aqua Eyes stays on all day! It's perfect for hot summer days! It claims to be "waterproof, smudge-proof, fade-proof". Not too sure that I'd say it was waterproof... but I can definitely vouch for the other two! Anyway, Sephora is offering a full-size liner today so I thought I'd share that little piece of information :) Get yours  here .

[via] These are two colors that I'm crazy over and BaubleBar is feeding my addiction! Spearmint Bauble Bib : $36 Tangerine Boho Drops : $34 Green Apple Cuff : $160 Tangerine Teardrop Bib : $34 Jade Fan Ring : $88 Tangelo Bib : $36 Mint Teardrop Bib : $34 Tangerine Resin Links : $58 Which one is your favorite?

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The much anticipated Dead Broke Collection from Tuc + Wes by Orly Shani is finally here! For those of us who love Orly Shani, the release of her new collection couldn't come at a better time. With Fashion Star Season 1 ending last night, I knew I'd have some serious withdrawal problems. Not to worry though. Orly Shani has proven once again that she's not going anywhere. Check out this behind the scenes video of Orly in action at the Tuc + Wes Dead Broke photoshoot. A glimpse of the Dead Broke Collection: The Original Broke City Scoop Tank: $30 Buy it  here "If you live on the corner of Hustle Drive + Penniless Lane... then you too, live in Broke City. Welcome to the neighborhood!" Overdrawn Muscle Tank: $28 Buy it  here "Have you ever pulled a Kastanza!? Postdated your rent check so your account won't overdraw? No?.. Oh.. Yea, neither have we.." Strapped Scoop Tee: $32 Buy it  here "Do you purposely forget your wal...

I finally got my hands on a Tuc + Wes button tee by Orly Shani ! I picked the Jeckyl in pink and I already want to go back for more. I love that you can wear each tee a billion different ways to create a billion different looks. JECKYL in Pink Check out all of the original button tees by Tuc + Wes  here  and visit  tucandwes.com  for details on how to order yours.

Ok so I don't have a child... but I do have a puggle ( Duke ) who is my little angel! Go ahead and judge me. Seriously, I'm fine with it. I used to make fun of people who were obsessed with their pets. Like, what losers, right? Yea... well now I'm one of those people. My husband makes fun of me, but secretly I know he's as obsessed as I am. Anyway, back to the point of this post! It's my first Mother's Day that I actually feel like a mama to some thing one! I know you mama's out there love your children like crazy. I can't even imagine the intensity of that! I think my bond with Duke  is even stronger because of the fact that Jared and I don't know if we are going to have kids. So don't rain on my parade, because I'm celebrating :) And now for your viewing pleasure... Want more? Click  here . Happy Mother's Day!

My mom is the strongest woman that I know, so naturally this verse reminds me of her. Without going into tons of personal details, I'll just tell you this: She raised my brother and I as a young single mother, with not much money and not many people to help. Yet I can't ever remember a time when my brother and I went without anything we needed. I'm 25 and married and still don't think I could handle children right now. I don't know how she did it. I've sat here and read it over and over to let it really sink in. It's so powerful isn't it? I have a tremendous amount of respect for mothers and a big soft spot for single mothers. My brother and I didn't always make it easy for my mom and even still, she always always expressed her love for us. For that, I will always be grateful. I hope that one day I have at least half of the strength that she does. Happy Mother's Day.

As part of my quarter-life crisis, on my 25th birthday, I felt the need to get a crazy, stand-out-ish, youthful manicure and pedicure. Pink + Crazy.... I obviously looked at Betsey Johnson for inspiration. Naturally, I went to  Salon Cherie  so they could work their magic. Here's what we came up with... inspiration Crazy huh? A little too wild for me but I love each design individually. It's all HAND PAINTED!!! What do you think?